A very good question and I too would like to have contributed to the other thread but couldn't. I go out mostly because I love it. I love the feeling of being seen as a woman. I love the thrill and excitement of that first moment when I step out. I love the preparation, putting on makeup, trying on clothes, accessorising. I love going out with a bunch of girls the camaraderie the feeling of belonging. I love going out to blend and just be another woman out there.... I could go on