Congratulations on taking such a courageous step.
Here's a documentary on YouTube about women who are married to crossdressers. It may be useful.
https://youtu.be/zV6bStI7St8
A word of warning: the documentary is from the UK, where the terms "tranny" and "transvestite" are still used to describe CDers. Doesn't bother me, but it might worry others. Good luck.
Xox,
Tina
