I believe there are always “people watchers” in public. I’m one. Many times, when I see an attractive woman, I think “how would that look on me?”, which could be misinterpreted as a stare. This causes me to do my best to blend in. In our town, during the day, women dress very casually...very..no makeup, heels, hose, etc. These things are immediate attention getters, which I’ve learned. I haven’t worn heels for a long time, but I do wear hose, which have been noticed, but I just go on my merry way. Night time is different.