I went from the daily commute and eight-hours at a desk routine to working from a home-office a few years ago, and experienced much the same thing that you describe. I found that I could turn on the computer, sit around in my pajamas, or get dressed to-the-nines, or just slide into a pair of men's Levi's and a tee shirt and it didn't make any difference to the way I felt. My take is that the pressure of the office and the male uniform environment created a pressure to get Femme when I was away from that environment. I still had the need to dress, but it wasn't so much of an imperative. I found out that the best compromise is just to shave close, put on light makeup and a wig, and that was enough, I didn't need the panties, the breast forms, the shoes, et cetera, to make me feel "right."
