There's a lot I agree with in your thread, Alex.
But, one thing jumped out at me! U talking about people who's minds r made up because of our societies dogma!
Yet, u called yourself a boy toy because your gf was 17 years older! My ex is 16 years younger than I and our ages were similar to u and your gf when we married. Nobody ever called her my girl toy! So in a way, you're doing just what u accused her of!![]()