Yes, women need to talk about the truth. If they know about it the both of you can deal with it. If you hide it and they find out they will wonder what else you are hiding.
In my case I like women but like women's clothes because they just happen to fit my size 2 figure perfectly!
A total 180 from the struggles to find age appropriate men's clothing that fits. If you are too small for 36S suit you are screwed!