At times I can be a fairly deep thinker regarding the human condition. I'm not looking for specific answers, but am interested in the experiences and expectations from before the revelation and after the revelation.
My relationship with Jeannie is different from most as she has known about and seen me (Kelly) on a regular basis, pronouns and even Names are very interchangeable. Even in our conversation,gift giving and where we go is very fluid. So in that sense we have no concept of expectations before and after.
I see and read about the struggles of others hear and among my friends and for good or bad think that hearing about GG perceptions before and after are valuable.