If you're in a city with a "gayborhood," think about going to an eatery there. Odds are you'll be catered to with over-the-top service at best, and treated like just another customer at worst. I love Annie's Paramount Steakhouse in DC on 17th St (I think). You can get great steak and eggs at 3 am after the clubs close, LoL!

Very cute, artsy pic, by the way!

Cheers,

Jill