I think the term has a place since so many people think dressers are into men, so this easily conveys they like to dress and like women. If I felt like a woman I might even use this term.
No. Just no. Putting on women's clothes does not make you a woman. If you are not a woman you can't be a lesbian, no matter how cute or clever you think think the misappropriation of the term.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.