It's generally difficult for people to understand those who are different than they are. Most people don't have a frame of reference for things they haven't experienced or witnessed themselves. Have you considered posting in this forum's section for trans-women, with like-minded spirits?
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...nssexual-Forum
Or maybe this section?
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...der-Non-Binary
Why don't you read a page or two of threads in each of those sections to see which you feel most comfortable identifying with.