Not pleasant, OP. Not by any stretch.
However, I can't get behind Daisy's comments. They're too perilously close to blaming sexual assault victims. "Well, you dressed like that!", "You were asking for it.", "It couldn't possibly be HIS fault because look you could see the beer. HE wasn't responsible, so you should have been.". SMH.
Perhaps OP should take it as a compliment on passing. Or celebrate it as part of an authentic female experience? Yes. Of course, sarcasm. Please also watch for the utter absence of 'No offence, but...' in the next sentence...
Shrugging off rampant, ubiquitous misogyny as 'meh, reality' is what allows such insipid behaviour to continue unabated all the way to SCOTUS. (And top levels of government and business here in the UK, lest anyone think I'm anti-American. Which would be odd since my wife's a Floridian.)
