Guys of this type need to be removed from the Earth.
1. I once got called "tramp". I caught it on video. You should not take his comments as a compliment. We can't desire the equality with women to wear their clothing and then turn into guys when this stuff happens. Inconsistency will lose us support. You need to dismiss his comments with the same disdain as if he has said them to a woman... i.e. a slur on her fidelity.
2. We all know what should happen, and we all know what does happen. This knowledge does not infringe on your freedom to make any choice you wish. I would think your personal safety is more valuable than your valuables. I am in no doubt that you keep your valuables airtight...
I understand that sometimes we want to wear something special. When that's the case, then there is the option to adjust venue and accompaniment to compensate and reduce risk.
It would be so nice if we could eliminate the risks, but that remains a hope.
- Lydianne.
