Gina...sounds like you are going at a million miles an hour and you need to slow down. While it can be confusing with how your wife is acting, as you say, she may be testing the waters to see how much you have really confessed to actually doing. She is allowing Gina to come into the house, sharing time together, and you must take control and just do as she says. Please don't try to push and see how much you can have, because in the end, that could backfire....as you said, you know that one false move and the whole relationship could collapse. You must remember to allow your wife to process and experiment at her own speed, not yours, no matter how much it bothers you. To this day, I still get mixed messages from my wife every once in a while, and have to dial it back ....
