Hi Kelly,
One that comes to mind immediately is that most grown women don’t do their nails and hair together. My friends and I do not discuss fashion, either. That stuff stopped in middle school. If I think of more, I will get back to you. I’m sure the other ladies have something to add.
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Hi LTP:
My situation was a little different because my husband didn’t start dressing until we had been married a long time. And yes, it did effect my perception of him. It took a while (couple years) to get over that.
If you want a very good detailed account of a GG whose boyfriend dressed the way you are describing, go back and read posts from Confused_Cathreen.
Only you know what is best for your situation but if you really think you have feelings for someone, best to tell her before the relationship gets serious. Everyone reacts differently. Best of luck.