How soon (or deep) into a relationship does a GG want to know? I didn't tell my (late) second wife for almost 6 years, and it formed a wall between us for 20+ years. Almost two years after she died I told my next love before I proposed. She was OK at first, but not so much later and we broke up. Went into hermit mode until a friend introduced me to a co-worker a few years later. I told her after a couple of months, as things got serious, and things have worked well. We are married and very happy. I don't CD full time, and she is my fashion consultant.

I expect a range of answers (and I'm not sure if someone has posted this already), but I'd like to get an idea of the average time: How soon would a GG want to know?