Ask a GG - Part Two

[char GG]

Hi Ronnie,
I'm really not sure why. Maybe it's because most people don't know anything about or have never seen a cross dresser.

[Di]

Ronnie,
I agree with Char because they really do not know much about a cder. If they google it they will find the opposite it mostly true.

[Bea_]

Thank you to those that answered my question. I think that there was a bit of disconnect over what 'intimate' might mean in the question so I'll try to clarify.

My wife has never been one to leave the house without her makeup being perfect. She's very good at it and has done special event makeup for other ladies multiple times over the years (weddings, proms, etc...).

I really have no interest in wearing makeup on a daily basis. But, I would love to have several sessions with her and have her do various levels of makeup, from "male news anchor" to "tasteful glam' (I'm not the over the top type). Since we both much prefer me with a beard, I am not trying to pass. The goal for me would be just plain experimentation. The fantasy would be for her to be eager to please me rather than to reluctantly appease me.

The intimate part of the equation, as the receiver, would be much like being the receiver of a long slow non-sexual massage (given by the SO). Even bringing an unexpected cup of coffee to the SO in bed would be a small intimate act in my mind. Even if sex isn't the goal or the end result, the act of having someone give time and attention in that way fits my idea of intimacy.

Does that clarify or make sense to anyone?

[Robbiegirl]

I never told my wife about my interest in crossdressing before we were married but thought I gave her enough of a clue, what do you think ?
BTW I am known for my great sense of humor.

She had just finished showering and as always was walking in and out of the bathroom in a lacy white matching bra and panty set with a towel wrapped around her head. When she closed the door I noticed a folded pile of her laundry with the same lacy Bra and panty set on top and I thought to put them on. Since she is curvy the set fit a bit too well and with socks to fill out the bra and a towel on my head I was good to go. I walked in and stood next to her and asked to borrow her curling iron. She totally lost it and almost fell over laughing. She then chased me around the apartment with nail polish.

I think some women here may not realize but Believe me for a guy to put on silky panties and a lacy bra takes alot of courage ! So since most guys would never do this do you think I gave her a big enough hint ?

[Wifeling GG]

Hi Robbie Girl,

I think when it comes to something that can be as emotive and sensitive as the fine art of cross dressing that anything this side of hitting your significant other over the head with a sledge hammer is too subtle.

Seriously, cross dressing is an emotive subject and it may be just something you do in your head but not exactly the 'norm' in your significant other's experience. When you are serious about a relationship you have to play all your cards up front, be totally honest, and show all sides of who you are or you aren't being true to yourself or fair to your prospective lady.