Sometimes I feel our community puts too much emphasis for the same reasons.
Within any community there will always differing opinions and perceptions. What we, as a community, can do to encourage one another is to do just that: give support and advice to (someone) so that they will do or continue to do something.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.