are there any females that like crossdressers

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I'd imagine that some would-be accepting females are in relationships with cis-guys.

Accepting, vs actually interested in, are two entirely different things. Women are 'accepting' of gay men, too. But that doesn't make them potential romantic mates.

Simple answer. Any? Definitely. Many? No. Also, the subset of women who actually find it “sexy”, “erotic”, or “attractive” is even smaller than that of women who tolerate it, or like it on a platonic level.

Feminine sexuality in men is generally not a turn on for heterosexual women; It's more like a turn off for most.

They are out there but few and far between. Strike up a friendship with some girls, they may like to dress you up and when they do one may become attracted to you. It is more likely that way once they get to know you you become a friend of the group for starters.

There aren't a whole lot of women who yearn to dress up their male friends as girls, and are then sexually attracted to them. Playful dressing you up might occur, same as women play around with adorning a gay male friend with a feather boa, some lipstick, a frilly jacket, or fooling around asking if he thinks a particular purse goes with his shoes (I've personally seen this behavior by straight women with a gay male coworker).
Winding up in a permanent 'friend zone' is more likely.

There ARE some women that are attracted to crossdressers. However, finding them is almost impossible. Why? Well, having an openly crossdressing husband is hardly something to be proud of among women. It's sort of an exact opposite of a status symbol. Women show off their successful, high status male mates to other women, not the opposite. To admit that they are turned on by a fem guy, would even invite the questions from other women about whether they might be harboring lesbian feelings; much the same as if, say, a man proudly admitted that he liked the idea of his wife wearing a man style haircut, wearing a fake mustache, and wearing a men's suit, shoes, and behaved as a man.

I've run personal ads for decades, with virtually zero responses when I've mentioned crossdressing (other than from prostitutes, doms and men).

Good luck, Nylon45, you're going to need it. May as well buy some lottery tickets while you're at it, the odds are about the same.

The best advice I've gotten, was to go out of your way to befriend gay women, and get them to take you along to female gay bars. There you just might find a woman that will find you intriguing enough to approach you. But you'll have to be dressed in your girl clothes, and, perhaps just as importantly, probably have to look good that way in order to be considered socially acceptable there. For example: I, all six foot four and 280 pounds of me, wearing any sort of female outfit & wig, would probably be considered sarcastically poking fun at how women look, not appreciatively emulating them out of admiration. So if you're a cute feminine crossdresser, at least you have that going for you.