You’ll definitely want to look into local and state employment and housing discrimination laws as those will have real consequences. But you have absolutely the right attitude about getting read. So many girls are terrified of “omg, what if they can TELL??? *Gasp*”. Girl, let’s face it, most of us are just men in dresses (no offense trans women, I’m not including you) and people are GOING to be able to tell eventually. Just own it!
