So incredibly lost

[ellbee]

Apologies to the community here but for someone with no gender conflict, it's impossible to comprehend. I knew trans MtF had those needs, as it was logical they would want to look like they felt inside, but just plain wearing the clothes? Makes zero logical sense. You might notice I use the word "logical" a lot, it's to underline that it's not only the emotional a female partner has to deal with; it's also the illogical nature of crossdressing.

What exactly is so "illogical" about wearing certain things?

Ask CD'ers -- *and* GG's -- why they might wear leggings, for example. Ummm, because they're comfy as all heck?? And they're extremely versatile, to boot? (Could wear 'em for 24 hours straight, doing everything you normally would... And they'd be perfectly acceptable & up to the task!)


And why should only GG's have a "lock" on certain articles of clothing? Isn't that considered, I dunno, a bit sexist, perhaps?

If guys wanna wear something, then who cares! Now men don't have a right to be comfortable, to express themselves, to experience certain sensations?

How is wanting any/all of that, actually considered illogical?


You know, some people like to watch movies... Maybe because they're bored, or perhaps they want to "escape" from everyday life, or they want to be entertained.

And some people like to travel... Again, because they're bored. Or want to escape. Or to explore & experience new/different things.
Guess what? Some CD'ers may dress exactly for those same reasons! Shocking, I know. :brolleyes:


Again, I see absolutely nothing illogical about any of that.

And if someone actually does? Then watching movies & traveling have to be illogical, as well, simply put.

As well as a whole host of other activities. Sheesh, the definitive list of "illogical" things out there must number in the thousands, eh?

I also believe that it is a myth that women talk about "clothing, shoes & nails". I don't do that with my real girlfriends and my husband could care less about talking about what some on this forum consider "typical" girl talk. (Girls usually get over talking about that stuff in middle school, if they ever talked about it at all).

Oh, come on. Is this for real?


Maybe some here don't, and never have... Nor do/did the crowds *they* hang with.

But that is far from any sort of actual representative sample, I'm afraid to say.


Is that *all* they talk about? Of course not!

But to claim that no adult-GG's ever talk about certain things like you mentioned, is quite laughable. And quite untrue.

Should I provide countless examples of such? And I'm talking GG's in their 20's -- thru their 60's.

Heck, some of them even make a decent living by doing so.


Just because someone & their friends might not do something, doesn't mean it doesn't exist!

Perhaps expanding one's universe may be in order?



Anyway, sorry for the side-track. But just a couple things that I felt I had to speak up about.



As for the OP?

I'm sorry for your recent news. It could very well be the end of the world. Or not.


Not sure how to respond, except these words of yours stood out to me, anyway...

"I understand it is just clothes..."


Exactly. :wave: