In a follow up to Reine’s last observation...and the implications of dressing as a sexually expression vs an expression of gender identity was meaningful for me. While I do like to dress nicely, attractive even, I’m motivated to blend in, and yes, I am transgender. For my ex at least, dressing as a non-sexual expression was more disturbing and difficult to accept than if it was ‘just a sexual kink’.
isnt this something of a catch 22 in terms of relationships?
