Change is inevitable. We all change weather we like it or not. I’m sure you wish she was still as young and thin and beautiful as the day you married her, but change happens. The key to an enduring marriage is changing together. The catch is that she has to want to make the marriage last and want to go on that journey of change with you. It sounds like you picked a path that she’s refusing to take.
I can tell you WHY my wife chose to make changes to accommodate this part of our life: because she loves me, cares about me, and sees how genuinely happy this makes me, but she also knows I will never love this more than her.
