Nikki/Leap,
That's one benifit I could live with , being grousy and picky and temper flares in male mode . Saying that if I'm totally left alone by my wife as a reminder of things as they use to be I'm very much calmer and less prone to those problems . OK my wife called it burying my head in the sand but I've now found excluding some people or situations from my life does help , all to do with brain chemistry I guess .