Thanks for all the interesting feedback. I just want to make it clear this isn't a rant, I'm not upset, I'm just interested in honest discussion.
The reason I watch way more transgender stuff is that there simply is way more of it. Most CD youtube stuff is lame and fetish related. There are a few good ones like danam, and Noah Storms, but most are just like, "I'm going to dress up and walk around the house." The transgender youtube creators actually talk about stuff.
I totally get why someone would say you can't be a crossdresser and a transperson. If you really were trans you wouldn't feel like you were wearing the opposite's gender clothes.
But I'm also a big believer of the whole idea of a gender spectrum and that crossdressers fall on that.
Like I tried to convey in my post, if I'm "dressed" I don't really feel like I'm crossdressed, I just feel like I'm more in line with myself, but I also don't feel like I can just claim that I am a woman because I feel like one sometimes.
DocRobbySherry, I'm sorry you feel that way, but I'm not sure how you got that from my original post, are you sure you read it correctly?