The power in a pronoun.

[AllieSF]

Ah ok, that helps my understanding. I guess if you present in that androgynous way then either He or She might not sit well. Duh! I should have realized that! (My jet-lagged scatter-brain!) Is there another pronoun used in this case do you know? They/Them just seems counter intuitive to me somehow.

Another pronoun is "Xe", pronounced "zae", if I did that right. Like hay. I have trouble with them and am practicing using it when referring to a person who also has an organization behind them. Like a doctor's office. I actually prefer "Xe", but haven't found anyone who uses it. I do know some "they and them".