This kind of stuff gets written here a lot.
You don't need to 'get it'. Just like the public might not 'get' us but accept us. People have different needs, fulfilled differently.
Everyone could use that against anyone. It's just a question of where you stop. Different people set their boundary at different places. Real hair'ers could use it against wig users, no makeup'ers could use it against makeup users, no padders could use it against padders, etc.
Ironically, I have argued like this in the past in favour of you.
- L.