I know, I perfer to be the only transgender person in a room.
Being by yourself is different than being with even one other TG.
When I was first going out I wanted to find a TG friend to hangout with. This didn't happen, instead I made friends with GGs, the best thing that could have happened to me.
In the process I became Jean. I don't think of myself as being defined by gender. As my friends and I say I'm "just Jean".
As I represent female I follow society's and/or my friends (GGs) rules governing such. I'm more looking for my friends approval, this doesn't mean I follow them, on the contrary, I have my own style. Which if you think about it is just like most women.
I don't think of myself as being TG or defined by gender. I'm out and have developed my own set of rules to try and maintain my sanity.
By being with even one other TG person you are being defined by gender, that is why I perfer to be by myself.
Sorry if that sounds confusing, I want to be seen and treated as a woman, not a hyphenated person.
