Thanks, everybody. All good observations.
First, I'm not an innocent victim and I can be something of a drama queen.
But I really do need help some mornings, I've gone to work with my pants unzipped!
We had A Talk this morning when we both had plenty of time. She told me she has seen changes in me, not just the dressing and "doing my lady thing", but changes in me as a man and how we relate as husband and wife. (I only started dressing at all in August 2019 and it was never a secret between us)
She's right. I see them too. Acknowledging and releasing my feminine side has bled over into my masculine side. That should be no surprise.
Monday, when I asked her to check for tell-tell makeup, it reminded her of those changes.
We talked about what I need to do to be more "manly", but didn't come up with anything specific.
My wife is right. We've gotten through other "strange" time in our 47 years together. But this may be the strangest.
More Talks are in my future!!
Thanks for listening and sharing your experiences and insights.
Jessie Mae
