After Dorit comment I want to say something about wives, women. We weren't born women so it's hard for men to understand them because additionally to the unconcious norms and belief that society for centuries has written deep in our minds, there's a different chemistry as hormones. For me having, so far 2 years, the hormones level in my body of a woman, had evolve and ipen my mind to be feelings and way of thinking, if I can use that word, because my main finding is that women, generally talking, dont think but feel. By the other hand, men think they are the thinker what is not true because if there's one head they use is the lower head, generally talking, so there's a big differences in motives and reactions for everything.
Even thought today's evolved feminist norms, there's a search in the unconcious mind of the woman for safety in all the areas in life. There are some proud of the male she decide to live too and one this person shows now the appearance of a women all those feelings are attacked and is hard for them.to stop to think, there's an unconcious reaction for survival that, as we men can explain our sexual motives and reactions, they, women can't control, understand and much less explain their reactions.
It's the independence of life that's is under attack and they, women, are better survivors than men.
So give them time and the opportunity to see a new, better person, independent if the gender on us, but it's going to be a really hard task they can overwrite all their deep rooted rules and laws if life.
Mho
Devi
