Dutchess,
That is the part that hurts , I would never down my wife or trash her in this way , OK you don't agree with not disclosing before so I remained in the closet trying to do my best. She knew my mental state and what I was going through so to see someone go down hill to the point of considering ending their life and do little to help hurt at the time and still hurts now .
Going back to the point of trashing , she's has given far more , I have never hurt and insulted her like she has me , she likes playing these mind games , and hurting people at times , I'm sure even without the dressing issue we would have parted , to her it was the ideal excuse .
I did give her options to get the marriage certificate to me , it was her choice to visit me at my home . I hope the grass is greener for both of us , she's already booked her next Med cruise , not exactly holding back is she ?
