Trust is the major issue.
But, after being married for 10 years, there is another factor at play. More than likely her beauty, by conventional standards, has started to fade.
Which means that your dressing can bring up unpleasant issues in about how she looks. Unrealistic beauty standards. Dieting struggles. It is a real minefield.
If the pink fog is so bad that you are oblivious to her issues this will not go well.
Marion
