Missjoann,
Haha. I wish I had been able to talk to women when I was younger. I have come a long ways since my dating days when I was super shy.
I have had some practice in sharing my dressing habits and it usually goes well. In 2017 when I was going out a lot, I had been picking up some makeup supplies frequently at a CVS pharmacy. I had the same checkout lady a number of times so one day I said, I guess you are wondering why I am buying all this stuff, and I showed her a picture. She was amazed and after that , when I would run into her I would say- you want to see what I wore last night? She was super curious and loved seeing what sexy attire I had worn between shopping visits. Fun days for sure. I loved it.
Sandi