I'm totally with u, Val. I've been out dressed countless times. But, I NEVER go out dressed to vanilla venues unless it's with a group of T friends! I don't enjoy and will NEVER get used to; rude looks, comments, and the extra, mostly negative, attention I get out dressed.

That's why almost all my outings r to T friendly venues and events!

The rudest and most outrageous comments I've ever heard were in Vegas by the way. Not from locals, but tourists. Probably drunk at that.:drink:

Quote Originally Posted by AngelaYVR View Post
This is a great question. Let me first get this out of the way: we?re going to assume that your presentation is good and your clothing choices are not overly flamboyant. This is not a comment on how well you pass.
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I'm sorry, Angela, but this is TOTALLY about passing and "dressing to blend". It's MIAD's that can't ever pass, period, that have these problems. Those of u that mite pass occasionally or r willing to cover up like your grannie to avoid attention, have no idea what it's like having people gawking, eye rolling, and chuckling at u every minute you're out dressed!