Some of us just dress for fun. Please accept this. Not everything enjoyable has to be sexual or identity-related. I think part of the problem is that little boys are made to feel that if they like anything remotely girly it is very very bad and they mustn't want these things. No wonder so many men grow up thinking women are inferior. Little girl wants to dress as Superman - excellent. Little boy wants to dress as Elsa - he should be ashamed of this. Result is a screwed up society that looks down on women and women have to spend far too much of their energy trying to fix this.