I guess what confuses me is the posts in the crossdressing section by forum by members who identify as transgender. It can be confusing and sometimes intimidating when we think we're reading a comment from another crossdresser because it sets a higher bar than we might be capable of. I have gone to the transgender and non-binary sections and I don't see crossdresses participating in those posts and, in fact, got scolded one time for being in the wrong place.
I do often question if I am something more than a crossdresser so I have gotten some benefits from some of those comments. I am not scolding anyone, just saying that sometimes I am confused by some of the other participants until they mention they are transgender. I understand that many started out as crossdressers and are comfortable and among friends so no worries but admittedly confusing for us newbees at times.