@Jodie_Lynn - to be clear I wasn't saying *you* were disagreeing with my comments. It was a royal "you" - as in if anyone disagrees with my comments, that's fine. Doesn't really bother me whether people agree with me or not.

The simple point I was trying to make is that not everyone fits in a neat category, and quite possibly not everyone uses the same term in a different way. I have a hard time understanding who I am, so you can imagine how difficult it is to explain who I am to others. Sometimes you just go with the best approximation possible.

Anyway, long story short, I fall on the easygoing side of these things. I don't really take offense at anyone's position or thoughts. If you feel comfortable using a certain term, go ahead. Whatever. It's your life, define it as you see fit. If someone wants to asks questions or needs more info, then okay sure ask questions.

PS my favorite fancy new term is "demi-sexual", which is defined as "only feeling attracted to someone you have a deep emotional connection with." Umm, when I was growing up that was called "falling in love." LOL.