Cindy,
I mean the whole package to be " YOU " If you were totally free what would your final balance of your look be , on a daily basis would you really want or need to wear high heels and have enormous boobs .
Star,
I feel you get my point . I must admit I've not given up on clubbing or partying the night away , I love my dancing too much even at 69 .
Geena ,
Is that your choice or the choice you're allowed to make , the reason I ask this question is without those restraints .
OK if I give myself as an example my avatar picture was taken in an art room full of people , for me to be " ME " I wore the blue sweater and a denim skirt with 2" wedges . I was possibly the only one wearing a skirt that day but it felt OK .
