I can't help but think one of the major rites of passage is that first order of clothing, makeup, panties, or whatever that first order you make is for delivery to you. The initial fear that there is with "what if the mail carrier knows" or "my significant other sees the package" or whatever concern we have is real for most of us. It is a barrier that has to be passed. I feel like passing that "I am willing to order something for my crossdressing and have it delivered to me" is a major rite of passage. There are likely many between, but certainly buying clothing or supplies in person at a store would be another.
