Update: Friend #1 called me this morning. I was on a Zoom meeting, so he left a VM. Apologized for being inappropriate, said he respected me and had no problem with any of it, and *drum roll please* offered to be available to meet up for coffee or lunch with me dressed, as a good faith gesture. Lol. Yes, ladies, those of you who speculated about his motives were onto something. 😂🤣😂