Leslie/Helen,
I can see I've possibly reached the point where I need to make this decision . On the one hand I would like to see more members of the TG community be integrated into society , if I'm in a position to improve that situation I should use the opportunity . On the other hand the closer you get to transition the less you need to make the point of being TG , I can see why my TS friend would advise me against divulging that information .
I guess you are both correct in saying I have very good acceptance , why jeopardise it .
Helen ,
You sum it up very bluntly when suggesting a possible bloke in a dress if I push the point .