Monica,
I feel gender issues go deeper than the obvious appearance of an overweight person , most people can change that by eating the right food stuff , being misgendered cuts deeper because you can't change your gender assignment .

Jodie ,
I'm in two minds whether " Bitch " is a compliment or not , I understand your acceptance but I have a TS friend who runs a social group and everytime I attend she would say , " You bitch , you've done it again !" simply because I'd put a nice outfit together . I know it's in fun but it's something I struggle to accept .