How did you come out to your SO?

[laurie103]

Laurie,

You know your life and your wife's reactions better than anyone here knows. Only you know if you are able to hold your internal feelings in check for the rest of your lives together.

We're perfect besides this. I wouldn't care if she liked to dress like a man and go around town. I've come so close to telling her three or four times lately. Her father came out as gay after four kids, so I'd feel like I was doing the same -- even though I fancy women and want to be with her. I'm worried she'd see it as the same thing.