I was getting more and more depressed and constant lying and hiding things was becoming too much. So one day i started to tell her about my secret and it just kept coming like a fountain.
Explained that i was not gay and all the normal assumptions that comes with the disclosure. She is my soul mate and stated after a lot of tears and huggs she stated she loves me for me. That was many years ago and we have been together 36 years now. I dress nearly all the time in the house unless anyone is visiting. x