Someone posted the hip matrix (or something like it) years ago and it is an eye opener.

However, I also came to this conclusion:

All I can do is be myself and try to minimize my male characteristics to a reasonable extent.
I've found that trying too hard to mimic female gestures, walk, talk etc. can cause an exaggeration of these attributes; Like an actor overacting. For me, it's better to reduce masculinity rather than increase femininity. YMMV