Wives are not stupid. You left our a reminder for her that you are a cross dresser; whether intentional or not. I had to Google the product and it seems it is marketed to women although personally I do not know why a guy who has sensitive skin would not use it. If you wear a bra with breast forms to bed with a non-accepting wife I think you're pushing the limits. That's a good way to eliminate any snuggle time with your wife.