I can't believe how many responses have essentially been "I'll be dead so I don't care", especially from those whose partners do not know.
Life carries on for your family and friends, and you'll never be able to explain this side of you. You'll have left behind a wife who will be questioning if you were gay, if you wanted to be a woman, if you did this all the time, if you ever loved them at all.
I can't believe how selfish people are to simply say it's my turn, who cares about the turmoil I leave behind.
