Here is the money quote:

IF your wife knows that you crossdress, does she know that you fantasize ( or at least think about ) being in the arms of a man, dancing, kissing, and going to bed with him? I know, I know, you may never in a million years actually DO that, but you think about it, don't you? It's one of the aspects of dressing pretty, isn't it? I mean, WHO, are you dressing up for? Yourself? Ok, fine. If you stay in your room, prance around, take a few pics, and then >ahem< 'relieve the tension', that's your business.
So if someone crossdresses, and their wife knows about it, it MUST be to attract a man? Isn’t that her statement verbatim?

Jodie_Lynn could have asked the question about members' motives for dressing and going out, but she assumes IN HER QUESTION it's only for ONE purpose--and the same for women too.

Surveys show that about 5% of the population is gay/lesbian or bi, so for every ONE person who is interested in same sex relationships, there are NINETEEN that aren't. So to suggest that everyone on this board fantasizes about that--which is exactly what she states--is contradicted by the facts.