This will be an unpopular response, so I promise not to defend it when you don't like it.
As I see it, modern science cannot change the chromosomes that determine whether you are male or female, so anything you do to approximate it is merely crossdressing, or Extreme Crossdressing, especially if there are hormones or surgery in the mix. I have no problem with anyone who wants to live as the gender he or she isn't, but let's not deceive ourselves about what we are.
I said it, I'm done, you may now call me a jerk. But then I'm a guy, so that's obvious.
