DO NOT Ask for or take marital advice on the Internet!
It doesn't matter if strangers on the Internet think you are being unreasonable or not. Their responses are not going to change things.
If your wife thinks you are being unreasonable and you want to continue being married to your wife, her opinion is all that matters.
That said, sometimes it is possible to slowly change a person's opinion over time. Lots of time and do it slowly.
