lol Monique! A while before the scope of my weirdness came out my wife had left her PJ's out on the bed while she ran a kid's friend home. I put them on and laid down on the bed reading, waiting for her to get a laugh. It worked, she laughed! Then she noticed something, let's just say that a certain part of me was expressing how much I liked the outfit, and she said as much, that I must really like wearing her clothes. I managed to reply "would that be a problem?" It went nowhere from there at that point, but little things like that got me to the big reveal. So I'm thinking you might be on to something! Keep nudging!